My Nanna paved as much of her plot as possible, with pastel coloured concrete slabs which were fashionable in the 60s and 70s. The front ‘garden’ was dotted with uninspiring evergreen shrubs and she massacred them within an inch of their lives every year. She only ever had one houseplant - a cactus - and it was very prickly. It suited her.
Dad was his mother’s son and hated gardening. He condescended to cut the grass and hedges so he could tinker with a variety of different lawn mowers and hedge trimmers. He did not like rain on his head or mud on his shoes but he would venture outside if there were boats or pigs to look at. He loved photographing pigs, messing with car engines and playing the piano.
This one's for you Dad |
Not much to do then! |
Mum made a rose bed, a large rockery and several mixed borders. Later on, Dad bought her an aluminium greenhouse and she grew tomatoes and bedding plants from seed she bought mail order from women’s magazines. The day the first ‘Garden Centre’ opened in town was a huge event for her and she took me along too. We had tea and cake in the coffee shop and for a family who never ate out, this was a very special treat.
Gardens are for fun |
Some of my earliest memories are playing outside on my tricycle, making mud pies and planting nasturtium and marigold seeds. Despite my nanna’s huffing and puffing she was a wonderful lady and it was she who converted the old outside toilet 'shed' into a play house for me. She painted the inside green, granddad made some furniture and I painted a sign for the door. Apple Blossom Villa was a paradise.
I also remember being knocked unconscious when a conference pear fell on my head and everyone said it must be a good omen. But my everlasting recollection is of mum, on her kneeling mat and wearing a cotton headscarf. She died 15 years ago and sadly she never saw Springfield or knew me as the keen gardener that I am now. But I like to think she is always with me in spirit in our garden, suggesting some bulbs to plant or admiring the flowers.
Mum with secateurs - which were probably a gift from Nanna.... |
Doc was given his gardening gene by his father who kept us supplied with raspberry canes, cultivated blackberry plants, bizzy lizzies and tips on growing leeks and tomatoes. The last thing he ever gave me was a strawberry pink chrysanthemum in a pot and 4 years on, it is going strong and is one of my most treasured plants.
Doc with his Dad |
My mum never pressured me to become a gardener or gave me chores to do outside. So, I never asked our son or daughter to join in with the gardening. They played outside with their friends throughout their childhoods and it was lovely for them. Number One Daughter is now a florist and Number One Son is a real foodie and grows vegetables and herbs in a couple of raised beds. I am glad the gene slipped through and Doc and I are hoping the gene gets passed to their children too. We have the most hideous plastic gnome and when our grandchildren come to Springfield, we can play ‘Hunt the Gnome’ and other games in the garden. Hopefully, a little bit of soil will get left on their fingers and turn green.
The Chrysanthemum |
Doc with his first wheelbarrow |
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